Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there . They serve some sort of purpose , teach you a lesson or help to figure out who you are or who who want to become in your life. You never know who those people may be ; your roommate , neighbour , long lost friend , lover or a complete stranger , whom when you lock eyes with you know that very moment they will affect your life in some profound way and at times things may happen to you and at that time they awesome , amazing or even horrible , painful and unfair , but in reflection you realize that without overcoming these challenges you would never have realized your potential , strength , zeal , will and power of heart.
Everything happens for a reason . Nothing happens by chance or means of good or bud luck . Love , lust or moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your heart and soul. Without these small tests , if they be events , illnesses or relationships , life would be like a smooth , paved , straight , flat road that leads to some where safe and comfortable but dull and utterly pointless. The people you meet who affect your life's successes and downfalls or experiences they are the ones that create who you are. The lessons learned from such occurrences are the hardest , most interesting and probably the most important ones.
If someone hurts you , betrays you or breaks your heart forgive them for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of becoming cautious to whom you open your heart to. If someone loves you love him/her back unconditionally with a strong heart and a rational mind. People will love and support you when its beneficial, could be out of lust or because you have something to offer but in the long run they teach you a valuable lesson to love with an open heart and mind , they will open your eyes and soul to see things you would have never seen or felt without them.
Make everyday count , appreciate every moment and take from it everything that you possibly can for you may never be able to experience it again. There is more to a person or situation that what just meets the eyes so always look at the bigger picture and see what each object in the picture tells you about the picture,their roles in the general message of the picture and surething you will understand that everything happens for reason , it all depends on how you will use the reasons to your benefits.
by Steward
